Kirsten Hunneyball · Recovery Coach

You don't need
more willpower.
You need to understand
your nervous system.

The Grounded Method is a structured, polyvagal & nervous system-informed coaching program that helps people navigate recovery from dysregulated eating and to feel more at ease in their relationship with food and the body. Inspired by the Felt Sense Polyvagal Model (Developed by Jan Winhall), The Grounded Method shifts the paradigm on how we view dysregulated eating and addiction: not as failures of willpower, but as intelligent adaptations of a system trying to help you create a sense safety, regulation, and for survival. Understanding this is where things can begin to change.

Reconnect· Restore· Return

Kirsten Hunneyball

No clinical diagnosis required

"You don't need to fix yourself. You need to come home to yourself."

You've read the books. Tried the approaches.
Done the work. And somehow you're still here.

You've probably spent more time thinking about food and your body than you'd like to admit. Maybe it takes up more mental space than it should. Maybe you've tried to change things more than once, and found yourself back at the same place, feeling stuck in unwanted patterns. It's not a willpower problem. It's not a knowledge problem either.

For most people who struggle with their relationship to food, the food was never really the problem. It became a way of managing feelings, of coping, of finding some sense of safety in a life that sometimes felt like it had none. That's not a character flaw. That's a nervous system doing exactly what it was designed to do. Yes, we can look at our food behaviours and try to modify them toward healthier habits, but ultimately understanding your nervous system and learning to work with it rather than against it, is where lasting change begins.

Awareness is the precursor to change. Action is the driver. Compassion glues it all together.

A structured path
back to yourself.
Not a programme.
A process.

The Grounded Method is a program built in three phases. Each phase has a clear focus, a clear set of tools, and a clear intention. Together they form a complete journey from dysregulation to ease.

No open-ended coaching loops. No guesswork. A clear map, and someone to walk it with you.

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01

The Ground

Understanding what's underneath

Before anything changes, we get curious. This phase is about understanding the role of safety — in your body, in your relationship with food, in your own story. We work with the nervous system to understand it's role before we try to change the patterns.

Nervous system · Safety · Patterns
02

The Root

Building a new relationship

This phase is where the real unlearning happens — releasing the rules, the judgements, the inherited beliefs about food and your body. Structured. Supported. Yours.

Unlearning · Identity · Relationship
03

The Bloom

Living it — fully and freely

Integration. Taking what's shifted internally and letting it show up in your actual life. This is where we begin to build who you are beyond the food and body healing. It's about purpose, identity, and the you beyond the struggle.

Integration · Freedom · Life

Find your starting point

Not sure where
to begin?

Four questions to help you understand which kind of support might suit you best right now. No right or wrong answers — and if you still aren't sure, feel free to get in touch with me directly and I will help you decide which pathway might best support your journey.

Kirsten Hunneyball

I'm Kirsten.
I lead with curiosity
and compassion.

"Having walked my own path through an eating disorder and trauma, I know how complex healing can feel. I'm not here to tell you what to eat or how to feel. I'm here to guide you toward an unshakeable sense of self."

I am a certified Felt Sense Polyvagal Model Facilitator, trained through the Polyvagal Institute with Jan Winhall. This model shapes the foundation of everything I do. It approaches dysregulated eating and addiction not as moral failures or habits to break, but as the nervous system's learned strategies for creating safety. Working from the bottom up — beginning with the body and its felt sense rather than behaviour or cognition alone — creates the conditions for change that actually lasts.

I've spent years working alongside people in the depths of eating disorder recovery, in clinical and coaching spaces. That experience shaped how I see people, how I listen, and how I hold complexity. But it also showed me that there was a "missing piece". Somehow, just knowing what to do wasn't enough. People had to have experiential safety within their bodies in order to sustain change. Bringing somatic work into my coaching became that missing piece. My work is rooted in helping you reconnect with your empowered self through the body, so that you can move through life's challenges with compassion, awareness, and practical tools for real change.

As a coach (not a therapist or medical professional), I work within a coaching framework to guide your growth, deepen your self-awareness, and strengthen your capacity to make grounded, aligned choices. Coaching often works in adjunct to a multidisciplinary support team, and I will always refer you to the appropriate clinical providers where needed. This is determined on a case-by-case basis.

The key to life is to love greatly, live gently, and let go gracefully.

My qualifications & training →

Deeply curious,
continuously learning.

Certifications

  • Polyvagal Felt-Sense Model (FSPM) Facilitator for Trauma & Addiction Jan Winhall · Polyvagal Institute
  • Advanced & Specialist Addiction Counsellor Certificate AACC – ACCSA · Note: CPD training only, not practising as a counsellor
  • Peer Addictions Recovery Coach U-ACT
  • Eating Disorder Intuitive Therapy (EDIT) Coaching — Bronze Level Dr. Dorie · EDIT Institute
  • Life and Wellness Coach TriFocus Academy
  • Trauma Sensitive Yoga — Return to Presence Facilitator Candice Clark Counselling
  • 200hr Yoga Teacher (YTT) Yoga Renew
  • Advanced Special Populations Group Personal Trainer TriFocus Academy

Additional Training

  • Understanding and Managing ARFID, PDA & PICA DisordersNEDDE
  • Introduction to Working with Disordered Eating & the Neurodivergent IndividualNEDDE
  • Understanding OCD: Insights from Lived Experience & Clinical PracticeNEDDE
  • Trauma-Informed Therapy for the Neurodivergent ClientNEDDE
  • Weight Management for Neurodivergent ClientsNEDDE
  • Supervision Group for FSPM: Applying the Model in PracticePolyvagal Institute
  • Yoga for Eating Disorders Level 1 — Online ImmersionEat Breathe Thrive
BAPSA MemberEthical standards for recovery professionals

I maintain my own growth through 1:1 personal therapy, counselling supervision with a registered counsellor, and ongoing training — so I can support you from a grounded, well-resourced place.

A note on eating disorder recovery support

My background is rooted in years of experience supporting people through eating disorder recovery. I understand that landscape deeply — the complexity, the non-linearity, the courage it takes to ask for help.

If you are navigating a more complex relationship with food — whether that's active recovery, stepping down from treatment, or supporting a loved one — I'm happy to have an honest conversation about whether my support might be appropriate for where you are. I will always be transparent about what falls within my scope, and will connect you with the right professionals if needed.

You don't have to have it all figured out before you reach out.

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What people say

Real words from
real people.

"I came to Kirsten completely exhausted by myself. I'd tried everything. What she offered was something different — she never told me what to do. She helped me understand why I was doing what I was doing. That changed everything."

Client, South Africa

"Kirsten tuned into me more clearly than I was able to ever do for myself. She helped make conscious a really hidden part of myself and channelled so clearly the issue and how to solve it in a loving gentle way."

Cameron, Vietnam

"For the first time in my adult life, I finished a meal and didn't think about it afterwards. I can't explain how enormous that is."

M, South Africa

"Then I found Kirst, and my life changed. From our very first session, I felt safe, supported and understood. She created a space free of judgement and helped me look beyond the eating disorder to understand the deeper beliefs and patterns driving my behaviours."

Lisa, South Africa

"Working with Kirst has genuinely been life-changing. She helped me build a much healthier relationship with food and with myself... I now feel calmer, more confident, feel connected to me, and much more compassionate towards myself."

Client, South Africa

"I always felt extremely safe with Kirsten and therefore could show all my vulnerabilities that were needed to heal from the inside out. I experienced Kirsten as extremely reliable, professional and responsible."

Elisa, Berlin

Free resource

Stop trying to fix your eating.
Start getting curious about it.

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Work with me

Three ways to work
through The Grounded Method.

Group Program

The Grounded Method

12 weeks · Small group · Clear structure.

A structured 12-week program delivered in a small group of 10-20 people. Three phases of four weeks each, one 90-minute session per week, with playback available, 2 x monthly group Q&A, and weekly deeper dive material to work through independently between sessions. Optional to add on 1:1 sessions for deeper work throughout the course.

Phase 01 — The Ground · Weeks 1–4 Phase 02 — The Root · Weeks 5–8 Phase 03 — The Bloom · Weeks 9–12
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1:1 Transformation

Private & Personalised

Suggested 6 months · Fully tailored · Deep dive.

For those who want to go deeper, at their own pace, in a private container. The full Grounded Method curriculum — personalised to exactly where you are. One 50 minute session per week suggested across six months. Light between session text support included.


LIMITED SPACES

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Single Sessions

As & When You Need

No program commitment required.

Sometimes you need support with something specific — a difficult moment, a pattern that keeps showing up, a question you are sitting with. Single sessions are available without joining the full program. Get in touch to tailor a structure that works for you.


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Things people
often want to know.

I work primarily with people 16 and older who are navigating a difficult relationship with food and their body. I don't work with people who require primary inpatient care or are in a medical crisis — but I can help point you toward the right level of support if that's where you are. For anyone under 18, I require that a therapist and dietician are also part of your care team. This is something I'd encourage for adults too, though we can assess this together. The most important thing is that you come willing and curious — this work asks something of you, and that's where the magic happens.
I have had the priviledge of training under Jan Winhall to become a FSPM facilitator which separates me from your "cut-and-paste" coaches out there. This work is deeply rooted in nervous system awareness and transforms the way in which we deal with the body and behaviour. As a coach, I am here for the day-to-day reality of living in a body and a world that sometimes feels overwhelming. I help you develop a solutions-oriented mindset, reconnect with your own inner authority, and build a life that actually reflects who you are. Think of me as your Thinking Partner, Truth-Teller, Problem Navigator, and Loyal Ally — someone who walks with you through the practical, emotional, and relational terrain of real life.
Honestly? This is not about cures - it's about integration. And anyone who promises they can "cure you" is worth questioning. What I can offer is a structured, compassionate process that helps you understand yourself more deeply — your patterns, your nervous system, your history — and begin to relate to yourself differently. Recovery is non-linear and deeply personal. What I can guarantee is that the degree to which you show up for yourself will shape everything. I'm here to walk alongside you, not to fix you.
Cohorts are a fixed rate per person at. 1:1 sessions include light text support between sessions and we begin with a free 1-15-minute conversation to understand where you are and what would serve you best — from there we work out a package that is best suited for you.
I'm not currently contracted to any medical aid scheme. If cost is a barrier, please still reach out — I'm committed to finding something that works.
No — and that's intentional. My focus is entirely on your relationship with food and your body, not on changing the body itself. I am not a weight loss coach and do not focus on weight as an outcome of coaching. The goal is to help you feel more at ease, more trusting, and more free in how you live — whatever that looks like for you.
I am not a therapist or a registered dietician. Coaching does not replace therapy or dietetic care, but works alongside these services as part of a supportive, multidisciplinary approach. Therapists work with clinical and therapeutic modalities including diagnosing and treating mental health conditions, while dieticians provide medically informed nutritional guidance. I'm a coach — which means I work in the present moment, focused on practical support, accountability, nervous system awareness, and helping you translate insight into everyday change. Therapy and dietetic care work on different layers, and I actively encourage a multidisciplinary team. Coaching works best as part of a wider support system, not as a replacement for it.
My work is guided by: Compassion — meeting you with kindness and without judgment. Integrity — being honest, clear, and staying within my coaching scope. Safety — creating a calm, grounded environment for healing. Empowerment — helping you build self-trust and inner authority. Embodiment — supporting you to reconnect with your body. Meaning — honouring your inner wisdom and spiritual life as part of recovery.

I am a BAPSA member, following ethical standards for recovery professionals, and I maintain my own growth through personal therapy, counselling supervision, and ongoing training.
The Grounded Method runs across 12 weeks, divided into three phases of four weeks each. The full program includes one 90-minute group session per week, 2 x monthly group Q&A's, and weekly deeper dive material to work through independently between sessions. For those in the 1:1 Transformation, we meet once a week for 50 minutes across six months, working through the same framework at a pace and depth tailored entirely to you. Single sessions are also available for those who need support with something specific, without committing to the full program. These are tailored to your needs. All sessions are held online, making this accessible wherever you are.
Yes! I understand that not everyone can afford support, and so I have opened up scholarships for 1:1 and group cohorts. You may apply for a 50%, 75% or 100% scholarship. Limited availability. If you are wanting to apply for scholarship, please send an email through titled "scholarship application" along with your cover letter and which scholarship you are applying for.

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