Kirsten Hunneyball · Recovery Coach
The Grounded Method is a structured, polyvagal & nervous system-informed coaching program that helps people navigate recovery from dysregulated eating and to feel more at ease in their relationship with food and the body. Inspired by the Felt Sense Polyvagal Model (Developed by Jan Winhall), The Grounded Method shifts the paradigm on how we view dysregulated eating and addiction: not as failures of willpower, but as intelligent adaptations of a system trying to help you create a sense safety, regulation, and for survival. Understanding this is where things can begin to change.
Reconnect· Restore· Return
No clinical diagnosis required
"You don't need to fix yourself. You need to come home to yourself."
Does this sound familiar?
You've probably spent more time thinking about food and your body than you'd like to admit. Maybe it takes up more mental space than it should. Maybe you've tried to change things more than once, and found yourself back at the same place, feeling stuck in unwanted patterns. It's not a willpower problem. It's not a knowledge problem either.
For most people who struggle with their relationship to food, the food was never really the problem. It became a way of managing feelings, of coping, of finding some sense of safety in a life that sometimes felt like it had none. That's not a character flaw. That's a nervous system doing exactly what it was designed to do. Yes, we can look at our food behaviours and try to modify them toward healthier habits, but ultimately understanding your nervous system and learning to work with it rather than against it, is where lasting change begins.
Awareness is the precursor to change. Action is the driver. Compassion glues it all together.
How it works
The Grounded Method is a program built in three phases. Each phase has a clear focus, a clear set of tools, and a clear intention. Together they form a complete journey from dysregulation to ease.
No open-ended coaching loops. No guesswork. A clear map, and someone to walk it with you.
See how to join →The Ground
Understanding what's underneath
Before anything changes, we get curious. This phase is about understanding the role of safety — in your body, in your relationship with food, in your own story. We work with the nervous system to understand it's role before we try to change the patterns.
Nervous system · Safety · PatternsThe Root
Building a new relationship
This phase is where the real unlearning happens — releasing the rules, the judgements, the inherited beliefs about food and your body. Structured. Supported. Yours.
Unlearning · Identity · RelationshipThe Bloom
Living it — fully and freely
Integration. Taking what's shifted internally and letting it show up in your actual life. This is where we begin to build who you are beyond the food and body healing. It's about purpose, identity, and the you beyond the struggle.
Integration · Freedom · LifeFind your starting point
Four questions to help you understand which kind of support might suit you best right now. No right or wrong answers — and if you still aren't sure, feel free to get in touch with me directly and I will help you decide which pathway might best support your journey.
Who I am
"Having walked my own path through an eating disorder and trauma, I know how complex healing can feel. I'm not here to tell you what to eat or how to feel. I'm here to guide you toward an unshakeable sense of self."
I am a certified Felt Sense Polyvagal Model Facilitator, trained through the Polyvagal Institute with Jan Winhall. This model shapes the foundation of everything I do. It approaches dysregulated eating and addiction not as moral failures or habits to break, but as the nervous system's learned strategies for creating safety. Working from the bottom up — beginning with the body and its felt sense rather than behaviour or cognition alone — creates the conditions for change that actually lasts.
I've spent years working alongside people in the depths of eating disorder recovery, in clinical and coaching spaces. That experience shaped how I see people, how I listen, and how I hold complexity. But it also showed me that there was a "missing piece". Somehow, just knowing what to do wasn't enough. People had to have experiential safety within their bodies in order to sustain change. Bringing somatic work into my coaching became that missing piece. My work is rooted in helping you reconnect with your empowered self through the body, so that you can move through life's challenges with compassion, awareness, and practical tools for real change.
As a coach (not a therapist or medical professional), I work within a coaching framework to guide your growth, deepen your self-awareness, and strengthen your capacity to make grounded, aligned choices. Coaching often works in adjunct to a multidisciplinary support team, and I will always refer you to the appropriate clinical providers where needed. This is determined on a case-by-case basis.
The key to life is to love greatly, live gently, and let go gracefully.
My qualifications & training →Qualifications & Training
Certifications
Additional Training
I maintain my own growth through 1:1 personal therapy, counselling supervision with a registered counsellor, and ongoing training — so I can support you from a grounded, well-resourced place.
A note on eating disorder recovery support
My background is rooted in years of experience supporting people through eating disorder recovery. I understand that landscape deeply — the complexity, the non-linearity, the courage it takes to ask for help.
If you are navigating a more complex relationship with food — whether that's active recovery, stepping down from treatment, or supporting a loved one — I'm happy to have an honest conversation about whether my support might be appropriate for where you are. I will always be transparent about what falls within my scope, and will connect you with the right professionals if needed.
You don't have to have it all figured out before you reach out.
Get in touch →What people say
"I came to Kirsten completely exhausted by myself. I'd tried everything. What she offered was something different — she never told me what to do. She helped me understand why I was doing what I was doing. That changed everything."
Client, South Africa
"Kirsten tuned into me more clearly than I was able to ever do for myself. She helped make conscious a really hidden part of myself and channelled so clearly the issue and how to solve it in a loving gentle way."
Cameron, Vietnam
"For the first time in my adult life, I finished a meal and didn't think about it afterwards. I can't explain how enormous that is."
M, South Africa
"Then I found Kirst, and my life changed. From our very first session, I felt safe, supported and understood. She created a space free of judgement and helped me look beyond the eating disorder to understand the deeper beliefs and patterns driving my behaviours."
Lisa, South Africa
"Working with Kirst has genuinely been life-changing. She helped me build a much healthier relationship with food and with myself... I now feel calmer, more confident, feel connected to me, and much more compassionate towards myself."
Client, South Africa
"I always felt extremely safe with Kirsten and therefore could show all my vulnerabilities that were needed to heal from the inside out. I experienced Kirsten as extremely reliable, professional and responsible."
Elisa, Berlin
Free resource
The 5 Questions That Change Everything — a free guide to understanding your relationship with food, without a single food rule. No meal plans. No tracking. Just five questions that open a door you didn't know was there.
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Work with me
Group Program
12 weeks · Small group · Clear structure.
A structured 12-week program delivered in a small group of 10-20 people. Three phases of four weeks each, one 90-minute session per week, with playback available, 2 x monthly group Q&A, and weekly deeper dive material to work through independently between sessions. Optional to add on 1:1 sessions for deeper work throughout the course.
1:1 Transformation
Suggested 6 months · Fully tailored · Deep dive.
For those who want to go deeper, at their own pace, in a private container. The full Grounded Method curriculum — personalised to exactly where you are. One 50 minute session per week suggested across six months. Light between session text support included.
LIMITED SPACES
Apply for 1:1 →Single Sessions
No program commitment required.
Sometimes you need support with something specific — a difficult moment, a pattern that keeps showing up, a question you are sitting with. Single sessions are available without joining the full program. Get in touch to tailor a structure that works for you.
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Book a session →Questions & Answers
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